it all started at lala comments field..sumthing like

"i'm freaking out on polygamy"
why the sudden fear or tots..and it's all bcos of an article..
she asked me, so m i not afraid of it..
not that i'm not afraid..just that i dun want to think about it..
but after reading it, i started to have 2nd tots...hehe..

but lala shared with me a convo that she shared with another male colleague..
"look, there are things you can control, and things you can't... all you need is the sense to control the things you can, and the strength to not worry about the things you can't....if the man you are with is so hung up on superficial things then he isnt the man you want by your side...he will love you for you.. the whole package... when we are old and wrinkly and can't do the business in the bedroom any more, isnt the persons spirit and soul much more important?"
so true gitu kan..

You can try asking your other half, see what their answer me...then maybe we can share-share... c how our other half answer the question...

but i know mine...

LOV.e have answered me last nite.... =)

at the same time I seek clarification from LOV.e ...

and his answer still does not satisfy my curiosity
but it only made me more ...hrmmm
guys think like that kerr...?? meke-meke nie mmg mintak kena yak-duss satu kali...
but then again...

even women think like that..

i guess it's just human natural instinct

but i for sure DO NOT accept such notion
i try not to think about it..
all i can do is pray and hope to have a marriage that will last till eternity
like romeo and juliet
where they stayed true to each other
insya'allah..

p.s: the article will be posted on top of this post..happy reading..
hehee...

Saturday, October 11, 2008