Thursday, November 08, 2007
Rising trend..?I read this article about an artist from one of our neighbouring country. She is neither here nor there..i mean her popularity...Well anyway, she is someone 2nd wife now. I dun really want to fault much IF people CHOOSE to be someone 3rd party and in other term, someone's 'madu' but the way she defend herself..well hrmm..if every female think LIKE her..then what will happen to female like US...??
She said something like this,"which woman can accept the fact of polygamy in their life, but she believe that she can be fair and that this is her fate. Who can question fate..? That is being set by god. And thus we must accept our fate as given by god. In islam, man are allowed to have up to 4 wives if they can be fair and just, so why not...? I don't mind to be criticize cause this is my life".
Whooaaa there..word check..you are a woman too so why do u say like that..? R u so unfeeling towards species of the same kind. Before you can say that this is fate, you have the option of choosing so why did you choose this path when you know right from the start that he is someone's else husband..? There might be reason to all of this SOOoo why can't you be more discreet with your words. So bold and loud...
Are the males population so limited that you choose to go for someone's else partner..?? If you say that he is good ohh please cut the crap..you are just being bitchy and pounching on the open vulnerability of someone else...
I know that this is not my business nor do i know you...but in cases like this..it's always because the marriage is on the rocks and the partner went astray..before they can find the ryte path, people like you came along....
Like i once said..Love is something sacred, dont spoil it for your own happiness. The option to choose is always there. Don't keep saying that all this is from Allah. Ohhh soo.. part cintan cintun pandai pakai nama Allah..tapi bab ugama, hancus..lupa segala2 nyer...kalau nak pakai nama Allah kenalar adil dan tau diri..jangan ikot sedap suka hati.
But i guess this is the rising trend..What's on the shelf is no longer consider a gooddeal whereas what's NOT on the shelf is something hot & wanted..
I pray and wish that all this will not befall me, my family and my beautiful frends..insya'allah..
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..Loving hym Loving us..
Thursday, November 08, 2007